A Mother’s Listening Ears

Posted By Jacque on August 4, 2008

Originally posted at Growing in Grace Magazine

Thursday, May 1, 2008

Sitting on the couch working on the laptop, I can hear just about everything that is going on around our house. Inside. Outside. There is nothing that escapes my hearing. I hear the older girls talking to each other about friends and what they are writing. I hear the quick tapping of fingers on the keyboard. I hear the Littles outside talking to each other; Hannah is directing them as she rides her bike around the yard. I can hear cars that pass on the road a ways down and roosters crowing.
I hear Lucy’s soft breath as she sleeps at my feet.

In honor of Mother’s Day, I want to encourage you this month, Moms. I want to commend you in your love and your good works in fulfilling one of the highest callings you have: to care for and shape the lives of your children. To hear their wants. To hear their hearts. To daily fill them with just what the Lord has for them for their lives. Not just for changing their diapers or wiping up the muddy floors, but especially for educating their hearts and minds and teaching them how to love the Lord in their daily lives.

It is not always easy to stay at home and care for our homes and our children. It’s amazing how we get caught up in daily life and before we realize it, so much has passed. Some days, it seems that the pressure is too much or even that we aren’t cut out for the huge responsibility it is to teach and train and raise a child from a sweet and snuggly little pumpkin to a God-fearing, considerate and loving adult.

Psalm 34:17
The righteous cry, and the LORD heareth, and delivereth them out of all their troubles.

Sometimes we don’t hear their hearts. Sometimes we can’t. It is so hard in our home to find peace and quiet sometimes, that feeling overwhelmed can be quite easy. Sometimes the cries of the heart are my own. And sometimes it seems as though those cries are overpowered by the cries of my children. Or the phone. Or the dog. Or the goats! In all of this, I cannot lose sight of the fact that it is an honorable career to be a mother. More than that, it is my heart, my calling. In quiet moments, I know it is my heart. I know that mothers are shaping the future of the world and directing souls to heaven. We are honoring the Lord.I assure you that our cries are heard by Our Heavenly Father. I can assure you that crying out to God is your safest defense. It becomes the greatest joy. It will refresh you and sustain you through loads of dishes, piles of school books and endless chores. It will strengthen you to teach your children daily and not count on it to just be caught. It will give you the desire for knowledge and wisdom and enable you to hear the instruction from the Lord. All of this is necessary to be the woman and mother who is fully the Lord’s and can impart the fear of the Lord to her children.

Proverbs 1:7-9
7The fear of the LORD is the beginning of knowledge: but fools despise wisdom and instruction. 8My son, hear the instruction of thy father, and forsake not the law of thy mother: 9For they shall be an ornament of grace unto thy head, and chains about thy neck.

Being teachable and listening to their hearts. Sometimes my children’s words and attitudes can be deceiving. I am learning to listen to their hearts and watch their reactions and encourage them. It is healing to my heart to realize a broken heart or see a spontaneous or deep joy in my children’s eyes. It is my calling. It is my heart.I have not yet seen the end of parenting any of our children yet, but I have seen the fruits of enduring and hoping and knowing that His ways are higher than mine and that He is able to do more than I could ever hope to do. I am still listening. I am listening to the Lord, listening to my husband and listening to the hearts of my children.

Mother’s Day this year is May 11th. I would encourage daughters to honor your mothers on this day and think of all the reasons you need to spend this next year honoring her each day. I think everyday should be mother’s day. I think every day should be father’s day too. This is God’s plan: to honor your Father and Mother daily. Moms, keep their hearts. Keep them for the Lord.

Happy Mother's Day banner by Jocelyn Dixon

Keeping their hearts ~ Bridging the gap~

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